Be ready to receive...you will get whatever you want!!

As humans, we have so many desires, wishes....

We want everything to be perfect in our life.....

We expect that all our desires be fulfilled....but are we really prepared to receive them....


Let me give a small example...we desire to own a car.....

but my friend...if this desire is fulfilled then where will you keep the car....so first we have to be absolutely ready to receive the car...for that we need a parking lot...cleaner....maintenance last but not the least a nice cute doggy doll for decoration....you really don't have to worry how exactly the universe is going to grant that car to you....you will owe it the moment you are ready....



Its very simple....
The universe says I am granting you the wishes for which you are prepared.....
The moment you are prepared it grants you your desire.....

Suppose, you are searching for a job at a particular location....be prepared for it....
Feel the joy of being employed in all your nerves....behave in that way....If you were in that desired job....you would get up early....get ready.....dress yourself in a decent attire....carry your office bag....so on and on....

so the moment you desire for a job...start getting up early in the morning...keep your dresses ready..office bag ready...bank account ready....

When everything is ready...you are ready...that moment the universe grants you the job....

Last but not the least you have to keep trying and working on your desires consistently, calmly and enthusiastically.....

its that simple.....:)

Your life....You are the Hero....

Life's very boring man!!Life's being unfair to me!!I am soo helpful to them but they deceived me!!

These statements are often heard amongst us....Well, in life's movie....We always imagine ourself in one way but behave in some other way because of situations....We want to be the hero of the scene but we just mess up and end up in a negative role....why so?

Yeyy!!I am the Hero...

Mummy...why Zero??

                                           

                                       

Lets try to understand this....Basically in a calm and favorable situation everybody is good...but real test comes when the situation is threatening. When we are forced to come out of our comfort zone...we start feeling life's unfair with us. But life's  trying to give us more of learning experience...more of short term struggle and long term happiness.....

SO... next time there's a challenging situation....face it boldly and calmly....be the hero of your own life....:)

Stop blaming....start living....

It's a natural human tendency to find an excuse from responsibilities....In doing so we often blame situations, time, people around us.....

But if we observe carefully all the situations are created by us.....we are responsible for each and everything that is happening to us....but we seldom take the responsibility of the situations.

Instead of blaming others if we start taking responsibility for our own actions then we would actually lead a peaceful life....

Take charge of your life...be the caption of your life....be the pilot of your life.....live your life....be happy....:)

Discover yourself....

Each and every person on this planet earth has got some or the other talent....

Its just that you got to discover your talent...your interest for a particular thing....

Be a part of this world....create your own world......

Think new ideas.....Explore yourself....

Know the value of each and everything....


You have a great deal of hidden potential....you just got to acknowledge...discover it...use it....

This discovery happens only when you are open to changes in your life....Accept challenges.....try to solve them...find a solution....in this process your potential is put to test.....

Discover yourself......be happy....:)

Radiance of Love....

Love yourself....Love every bit of your personality....

Admire yourself...Nobody else can play a better role in your life than you yourself....

The way you speak...the way you walk, your attitude, your kind nature....admire everything....

Its only when you love yourself enough, you would be able to give love to others.....

Just physically looking beautiful doesn't matter....You got to have a positive approach in life....Work on every aspect of your personality that it becomes so magnificent that you start enjoying your own company.....This is when your personality becomes so radiant that people too start enjoying your company....you now become like a magnet attracting all the positive things, all positive people in your life....

Ignore all the negative remarks....Concentrate more on you inner self...Train your self to acknowledge the positive things only....

Then your life entirely changes....You become content....happy...magnificent.....

Love yourself...live life...be happy....:)

Have a burning desire to live life.....

Its boring here.....Often heard this sentence....

Lets just understand when exactly we get bored....when we have nothing to do...nothing interests us...that time we get bored...

But in reality our work gets piled up, last minute rushes, etc.

"boredom" is the word used by lazy people who are sluggish and don't have an aim in life....

List out things you got to do....your desires....strive for it....run behind it...work for it...think about it...

Have a burning desire to lead your life....get all you wishes enlisted and start working on it...you would never even have the spare time to get bored.....

Always remember....have an aim in life...work day and night for it....achieve it....enjoy the successful moments....

live your life....be happy...:)

Life is a GAME or a CHALLENGE....

Many a times I wonder what is life all about?
Why are we faced with different situations? Why do we meet different kinds of people?

What exactly am I doing? What is the reason for this journey of life?


At times Life is just a game....at times it happen to be a challenge....



Admist all, a little inner voice says...hey u don't need to do a research on this....u just need to "live" your life...
Many of us just "exist"...

Life gives us abundance....acknowledge it...
Life gives us joy and sorrow....Accept it....
Life gives us lessons....learn from it....
Life gives us Love....Experience it.....
Life gives us emotions.....Feel it....

Life is a treasure...It has many things stored for us....just go on.....open it with joy.....

On the contrary another thought of mine says....hey life is just a game....
you have many levels to overcome...win it or loose it....

Then I realize, its not about winning or loosing in life...its all about how well you live your life.....you lead your life's journey matters....

Live your life....choose happiness....be happy...:)

Listen to yourself....

Each and every person have their own opinions, choices, suggestions. But when it comes to taking a decision, you may gather information, ask for suggestions but listen to your inner self. 

It knows you THE BEST. Nobody else can understand you better than you your self.

Help yourself out from situations.

People can only form opinion about you but its up to you to make it true or false.

You can always convince others but you can never cheat your inner self. It always knows the truth.

Listen to your little inner voice, walk ahead in your life....live your life...be happy...:)

Struggling to be your true self.....

Currently one of the major crisis faced by us is are we really being our-self.
Friends, boss, colleagues, partners expect us to behave in a particular way....We too in order to satisfy them behave in expected manner to certain extent...

But often this question arises.....Are we bluffing our self??

Being our true self....
It takes every bit of our courage to be our self in front of everybody....in the process of acting mature we loose being our true self....

One common human tendency is that we behave in different manner with different people...
Infact our level of maturity differs with different people....its actually fine...

Next question....is it not our responsibility to satisfy our parents and loved ones....
Of course yes....but in these cases you are behaving in particular way willingly...with a good intention of making them fell happy...We have to strike a balance....This level of maturity comes only with experience...

So guys experience every bit of your life...BE YOUR TRUE SELF.....live your life.....be happy....:)

Accept Life as it is.....

When exactly we get annoyed....

We expect things/situations to be in certain way...if it doesn't occur in the expected manner we get disappointed. So basically expectation of a particular thing brings disappointments.

How to reduce disappointment?

Simple! Accept life as it is....Accept people as they are....

Half the problem is solved....rest is in the way you interpret the situation....

Choose happiness....be happy....:)

Live life for yourself.....

I am sure, many a times this question has crossed our mind...

What he/she must be thinking of me?

Gosh!!

Honestly, though I am writing this post even I wonder at times....

The reason is we give importance to other's opinion, we seldom realize that we always end up pleasing others than our self. We become the football of other's opinion.

Stop! Think again...

LIVE LIFE YOURSELF!!

Does it really matter what others think about you...They never walked your path. They can only comment. You are an awesome person. You are the star of your life. You play the lead role in your life...Nobody else play for you. Everybody have plus and minus points in them. It's up to you to decide which points you want to focus on, enhance and strengthen.

From this moment, change your thinking. Instead of worrying what others might think about you, live life for yourself....Live the way you want...Be happy...:)

Anger Management

ANGER.....DANGER!!! 

What is anger? Why do people get angry?

Anger is just another state of mind. We expect something from somebody, if they do not satisfy our expectation then we get angry on them...it's this simple....Expectation is the root cause of everything...

Then should I not expect anything? Of course you can....

But you should be prepared to accept all kinds of situations in life. If our expectations are not fulfilled, big deal...Just move on...you don't have all life to get angry, waste your energy on....

Everybody gets angry at certain point of time...Its how well you can tackle with your own anger and others that matter...Getting angry, being short tempered are just another signs of low self confidence. Anger is just another mask that is worn in case where the person is not able to deal with a situation...

How to reduce your anger?

Simple....reduce your expectation...automatically you would be prepared for all kinds of situations thus leaving a little chance to get irritated and angry.

How to tackle a person's anger?

The only way out is to keep mum....Silence is the best solution in such cases...The person may yell at you, irritate you...but you try to be in your own control and be calm, composed and quiet...it increases you r energy. Because in anger, a person utters words which they may not mean but definitely hurting...Keeping quiet is a matured way of dealing anger....

So stop getting angry....be happy...:)  

Stop searching happiness outside you...

It's all about YOU....

YOU are responsible.....

You have got such an awesome life.....Physical fitness, all necessary amenities, friends for support, parents who can do anything for you...You might have everything in your life...still a feeling of discontent is felt...why so? Many of us have wondered...A sense of dissatisfaction, unhappiness is seen....why?

The answer is real simple.....Many a times we might have heard this from people...We our self might have discussed about this....Its all about YOU and YOUR THOUGHTS that matters...

Your thought matters

Let me give a simple example on this...A nice cute Wallet is gifted to two people...same color, same piece...still you will observe different reactions from them...one might be really happy while the other might say I already have a similar one. Now what matters is the thoughts that come across when they see the wallet...is what is making them happy or sad...The same applies for all the aspects in life...Instead of wallet it may be situation  surrounding, people, or anything for that matter...

Next, you might have a question, What thoughts have to do with happiness....

Yippiee!!  I look beautiful

Let me put it in simple terms....

Suppose in a person says...Wow..You are looking beautiful in this dress...You feel happy...why?

Because the person has said something which provoked you to think that yes I am beautiful...

On the contrary if you analyse the statement then you would think is it only because of the dress that I look beautiful otherwise am I not beautiful....You have a choice here...either to take it as compliment, just thank n be happy OR think the other way round feel sad, argue with the person who gave the remark and make them sad too...thus creating a sad surrounding for you...

So basically what you think matters......

Next, how to think good and be happy?

Here is what people differ...its all about your CHOICE...On every aspect of life, every day, every moment you make choices...knowingly, willingly or unknowingly....

let us see how...

When the person remarked about you looking beautiful, your mind starts thinking and analyzing the statement...Now you have two choices....one thought says wow...great...I look really beautiful...

other thought says..ya ya..the person is just bluffing, he is not complimenting me..he is just commenting on the dress...

Now here you have a choice...choose the good thought...accept the compliment...thank the person...create a happy surrounding or choose the other thought...argue n create a sad surrounding...

GOSH! Now how am I suppose to choose the good thoughts?

Its real simple...Whichever thought makes you feel good..choose those thoughts...

That's it...You will feel happy inside thus happiness is replicated in your outside world...

Thus the world within..is the world outside you...

Search for your happiness inside you...NO thing, person can give you happiness unless you choose to think in that way...

Thing Good...Feel Good....Be happy....:)