Stop searching happiness outside you...

It's all about YOU....

YOU are responsible.....

You have got such an awesome life.....Physical fitness, all necessary amenities, friends for support, parents who can do anything for you...You might have everything in your life...still a feeling of discontent is felt...why so? Many of us have wondered...A sense of dissatisfaction, unhappiness is seen....why?

The answer is real simple.....Many a times we might have heard this from people...We our self might have discussed about this....Its all about YOU and YOUR THOUGHTS that matters...

Your thought matters

Let me give a simple example on this...A nice cute Wallet is gifted to two people...same color, same piece...still you will observe different reactions from them...one might be really happy while the other might say I already have a similar one. Now what matters is the thoughts that come across when they see the wallet...is what is making them happy or sad...The same applies for all the aspects in life...Instead of wallet it may be situation  surrounding, people, or anything for that matter...

Next, you might have a question, What thoughts have to do with happiness....

Yippiee!!  I look beautiful

Let me put it in simple terms....

Suppose in a person says...Wow..You are looking beautiful in this dress...You feel happy...why?

Because the person has said something which provoked you to think that yes I am beautiful...

On the contrary if you analyse the statement then you would think is it only because of the dress that I look beautiful otherwise am I not beautiful....You have a choice here...either to take it as compliment, just thank n be happy OR think the other way round feel sad, argue with the person who gave the remark and make them sad too...thus creating a sad surrounding for you...

So basically what you think matters......

Next, how to think good and be happy?

Here is what people differ...its all about your CHOICE...On every aspect of life, every day, every moment you make choices...knowingly, willingly or unknowingly....

let us see how...

When the person remarked about you looking beautiful, your mind starts thinking and analyzing the statement...Now you have two choices....one thought says wow...great...I look really beautiful...

other thought says..ya ya..the person is just bluffing, he is not complimenting me..he is just commenting on the dress...

Now here you have a choice...choose the good thought...accept the compliment...thank the person...create a happy surrounding or choose the other thought...argue n create a sad surrounding...

GOSH! Now how am I suppose to choose the good thoughts?

Its real simple...Whichever thought makes you feel good..choose those thoughts...

That's it...You will feel happy inside thus happiness is replicated in your outside world...

Thus the world within..is the world outside you...

Search for your happiness inside you...NO thing, person can give you happiness unless you choose to think in that way...

Thing Good...Feel Good....Be happy....:)